The Folded Napkin

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The Folded Napkin

Postby Kevin » Mon Jan 04, 2010 2:25 pm

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If this doesn't light your fire... your wood is wet!

I try not to be biased, but I had my doubts about hiring Stevie. His placement counselor assured me that he would be a good, reliable busboy.

But I had never had a mentally handicapped employee and wasn't sure I wanted one. I wasn't sure how my customers would react to Stevie.

He was short, a little dumpy with the smooth facial features and thick-tongued speech of Downs Syndrome. I wasn't worried about most of my trucker customers because truckers don't generally care who buses tables as long as the meatloaf platter is good and the pies are homemade.

The four-wheeler drivers were the ones who concerned me; the mouthy college kids traveling to school; the yuppie snobs who secretly polish their silverware with their napkins for fear of catching some dreaded "truck stop germ" the pairs of white-shirted business men on expense accounts who think every truck stop waitress wants to be flirted with. I knew those people would be uncomfortable around Stevie so I closely watched him for the first few weeks.

I shouldn't have worried. After the first week, Stevie had my staff wrapped around his stubby little finger, and within a month my truck regulars had adopted him as their official truck stop mascot.

After that, I really didn't care what the rest of the customers thought of him. He was like a 21-year-old kid in blue jeans and Nikes, eager to laugh and eager to please, but fierce in his attention to his duties. Every salt and pepper shaker was exactly in its place, not a bread crumb or coffee spill was visible when Stevie got done with the table.

Our only problem was persuading him to wait to clean a table until after the customers were finished. He would hover in the background, shifting his weight from one foot to the other, scanning the dining room until a table was empty. Then he would scurry to the empty table and carefully bus dishes and glasses onto his cart and meticulously wipe the table up with a practiced flourish of his rag. If he thought a customer was watching, his brow would pucker with added concentration. He took pride in doing his job exactly right, and you had to love how hard he tried to please each and every person he met.

Over time, we learned that he lived with his mother, a widow who was disabled after repeated surgeries for cancer. They lived on their Social Security benefits in public housing two miles from the truck stop. Their social worker, who stopped to check on him every so often, admitted they had fallen between the cracks. Money was tight, and what I paid him was probably the difference between them being able to live together and Stevie being sent to a group home. That's why the restaurant was a gloomy place that morning last August, the first morning in three years that Stevie missed work.

He was at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester getting a new valve or something put in his heart. His social worker said that people with Downs Syndrome often have heart problems at an early age so this wasn't unexpected, and there was a good chance he would come through the surgery in good shape and be back at work in a few months.

A ripple of excitement ran through the staff later that morning when word came that he was out of surgery, in recovery, and doing fine.

Frannie, the head waitress, let out a war hoop and did a little dance in the aisle when she heard the good news.

Marvin Ringers, one of our regular trucker customers, stared at the sight of this 50-year-old grandmother of four doing a victory shimmy beside his table Frannie blushed, smoothed her apron and shot Marvin a withering look.

He grinned. "OK, Frannie, what was that all about?" he asked.
"We just got word that Stevie is out of surgery and going to be okay."

"I was wondering where he was. I had a new joke to tell him. What was the surgery about?"

Frannie quickly told Marvin and the other two drivers sitting at his booth about Stevie's surgery, then sighed: " Yeah, I'm glad he is going to be OK," she said. "But I don't know how he and his Mom are going to handle all the bills. From what I hear, they're barely getting by as it is." Marvin nodded thoughtfully, and Frannie hurried off to wait on the rest of her tables. Since I hadn't had time to round up a busboy to replace Stevie and really didn't want to replace him, the girls were busing their own tables that day until we decided what to do.

After the morning rush, Frannie walked into my office. She had a couple of paper napkins in her hand and a funny look on her face.

"What's up?" I asked.

"I didn't get that table where Marvin and his friends were sitting cleared off after they left, and Pete and Tony were sitting there when I got back to clean it off," she said. "This was folded and tucked under a coffee cup" She handed the napkin to me, and three $20 bills fell onto my desk when I opened it. On the outside, in big, bold letters, was printed "Something For Stevie."

"Pete asked me what that was all about," she said, "so I told him about Stevie and his Mom and everything, and Pete looked at Tony and Tony looked at Pete, and they ended up giving me this." She handed me another paper napkin that had "Something For Stevie" scrawled on its outside. Two $50 bills were tucked within its folds. Frannie looked at me with wet, shiny eyes, shook her head and said simply: "truckers."

That was three months ago. Today is Thanksgiving, the first day Stevie is supposed to be back to work.

His placement worker said he's been counting the days until the doctor said he could work, and it didn't matter at all that it was a holiday. He called 10 times in the past week, making sure we knew he was coming, fearful that we had forgotten him or that his job was in jeopardy. I arranged to have his mother bring him to work. I then met them in the parking lot and invited them both to celebrate his day back.

Stevie was thinner and paler, but couldn't stop grinning as he pushed through the doors and headed for the back room where his apron and busing cart were waiting.

"Hold up there, Stevie, not so fast," I said. I took him and his mother by their arms. "Wor k can wait for a minute. To celebrate your coming back, breakfast for you and your mother is on me!" I led them toward a large corner booth at the rear of the room.

I could feel and hear the rest of the staff following behind as we marched through the dining room. Glancing over my shoulder, I saw booth after booth of grinning truckers empty and join the procession. We stopped in front of the big table.

Its surface was covered with coffee cups, saucers and dinner plates, all sitting slightly crooked on dozens of folded paper napkins. "First thing you have to do, Stevie, is clean up this mess," I said. I tried to sound stern.

Stevie looked at me, and then at his mother, then pulled out one of the napkins. It had "Something for Stevie" printed on the outside. As he picked it up, two $10 bills fell onto the table.

Stevie stared at the money, then at all the napkins peeking from beneath the tableware, each with his name printed or scrawled on it. I turned to his mother. "There's more than $10,000 in cash and checks on that table, all from truckers and trucking companies that heard about your problems. "Happy Thanksgiving."

Well, it got real noisy about that time, with everybody hollering and shouting, and there were a few tears, as well.

But you know what's funny? While everybody else was busy shaking hands and hugging each other, Stevie, with a big smile on his face, was busy clearing all the cups and dishes from the table.

Best worker I ever hired.

Plant a seed and watch it grow.

At this point, you can bury this inspirational message or forward it fulfilling the need!

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Re: The Folded Napkin

Postby blondeD » Mon Jan 04, 2010 4:22 pm

Karl K of the Twisted-Humor group wrote: i have personally seen this sort of thing happen before and it sad to me that the one s who do not have the money are always the most generous ones. those with money are usually to concerned with keeping it and miss the whole point of having money
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Re: The Folded Napkin

Postby Azbrujo » Mon Jan 04, 2010 4:23 pm

Excellent, awesome share Kev.

Rennie of the Twisted-Humor group wrote:
.... I actually teared up, over this one....
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Re: The Folded Napkin

Postby stephenvbc1 » Mon Jan 04, 2010 6:15 pm

.... what a sweet and thoughtful story, thank you Dr K.
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Re: The Folded Napkin

Postby Beverly » Mon Jan 04, 2010 6:41 pm

Kevin...thank you so much for sharing Stevie's story with us. I have read it several times over the years...and each time, same reaction...tears well up..and sniffles start.

It is a touching story and definitely pulls at the heart strings.

There are many Stevie's out there in our communitiies, working hard and doing more than what is asked of them. See one young fellow who works regularly at one of our local department stores, and I swear to heaven's he is the hardest working employee in that store...always most pleasant and especially oblidging. Often offers to carry out my parcels for me (guess I must look old and feeble :)) but give him a tip each time, although there are many times only a couple of bags. Just feel like helping him out a bit and showing I am thankful for him, for his assistance and that above all, I accept him for who he is ...Russell..not a handicapped young man..simply a nice, friendly young man by the name of Russell.

Also, this bring to mind, the thought of what is "normal' and what is a "handicap". Personally feel they are many able-bodied and so-called mentally "normal" people who are so much more handicapped by their own selfishness, their "me first and foremost attitude" and inability to see the good in others and frown upon anyone they think of as "different". These are the true handicapped; furthermore, whom amongst us can say what is "normal"? We are all, in my humble opinion, "handicapped" in one form or another..some handiscaps can be seen but most not seen or recognized by the others...but we all have them, i.e....a fear of heights, fear of crowds, etc. etc.

As well, this story shows to us once again..that it is the ordinary, everyday working blok who is the first to open his wallet to help a friend in need. So many people who have never know difficult times and who have a tendency to look down their noses at those of us who have, are rarely the ones to be first to offer a helping hand ...either up or out.

Again, Kevin, a most though provoking post....as well as reminding us again there are kind and caring people amongst us.
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Re: The Folded Napkin

Postby Kevin » Mon Jan 04, 2010 7:01 pm

Me too, that's why I sent it, that and I once had a brother in law with down syndrome, and he fit the bill to a T with this Stevie, Timmy worked at McDonalds for 2 1/2 years before he passed away and he never missed a day work until he went into the hospital, he was one of the hardest workers they ever had...
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Re: The Folded Napkin

Postby Cindi » Tue Jan 05, 2010 9:06 am

That was worth the read Kevin....Now where's my tissue?
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